Life Advice
This is one of the most beautiful and amazing advice by the great scholar Imam Ibn al-Qayyim (rahimahullah): A friend will not (literally) share your struggles, and a loved one cannot physically take away your pain, and a close one will not stay up the night on your behalf. So look after yourself, protect yourself, nurture yourself and don't give life's events more than what they are really worth. Know for certain that when you break no one will heal you except you, and when you are defeated no one will give you victory except your determination. Your ability to stand up again and carry on is your responsibility. Do not look for your self-worth in the eyes of people; look for your worth from within your conscious. If your conscience is at peace then you will ascend high and if you truly know yourself then what is said about you won't harm you. Do not carry the worries of this life because this is for Allah. And do not carry the worries of sustenance because it is fro
